3 Warning Signs His Love For You Is Fake Even Though He Says He Loves You

These are red flags you must not ignore as a lady.

Photo by Vishal Jadav

Most people who have had their hearts broken by the people who claimed to love them so much would not wish even their “enemy” to be in a relationship with a fake person again. It hurts so bad!

There are times it might be difficult for some people to give someone a chance. They look so skeptical and very careful.

And you wonder why these people are so careful and selective in accepting someone for a relationship. This is probably because the people they thought loved them so much in the past disappointed them.

It hurts so much to hand the key to your heart to someone whom you believe loves you so much, and he shatters your heart with no apology. It really hurt!

“The worst feeling in the world is being hurt by someone you love.” — vishal

Few things are as hurtful as having your heart broken by someone you truly love, and you believed he loved you as much. Then, after you sacrificed so much in that relationship, you sadly realised he didn’t have any trace of love in his heart for you — he only pretended he loved you.

So, it’s very important to know if he truly loves you or he’s just using you and wasting your time. It helps you make a better decision to avoid future heartbreak.

Here are signs his love is fake even though he regularly tells you he loves you.

1. He only cares when he needs something from you

This is one big sign his love for you is fake.

Guy’s date for many reasons — they date for true love, sex, money, material benefits, and a lot of other unbelievable reasons. So, that you guys sleep together doesn’t really mean he loves you! Guys can sleep with someone they don’t love and still enjoy the section.

So, if he doesn’t give a damn about you until he has a need he believes you could help him solve, it’s a sign his love for you is not genuine.

-Some guys won’t call you until they want to have sex with you.

-Some guys are only nice to you only when they need some money from you.

-Some guys only call or text you when they have something selfish to discuss with you.

All these are signs they are dating you, not because they love you, but because of what they stand to benefit from you.

My best advice to you  is this, if he’s dating you primarily because of his selfish gains, quit that relationship. Because no matter what you invest in that relationship, it’s going to be a waste.

You can’t encourage someone to develop genuine feelings for you. Love comes naturally to people.

If he doesn’t have feelings for you, stop wasting your time and resources trying to make him love you. Move on with your life.

The truth is, there is someone out there who will love you for who you are and not necessarily for what you can give.

2. He’s unwilling to give

If you’re the only one who gives in the relationship and he doesn’t, that’s another proof his love is likely fake.

One good proof someone loves you is he gives to you freely. People may give without loving, but nobody can genuinely love and not give.

Love is naturally expressed through giving. When you truly love someone, there is a natural tendency to give to that person.

Love is beyond mere romantic words of compliments. Love is best expressed in giving(sacrifice).

If giving is one-sided in a relationship, one partner is using the other.

Sometimes you may not have money to give. I can understand. However, money is not all there is to give in a relationship.

-You can give your time.

-You can give words of encouragement.

-You can give attention.

There are many things to give to your partner that don’t cost money.

On the flip side, if he’s not willing to give his time, attention, money, or anything valuable he can give, he doesn’t truly love you.

3. He’s unconcerned

He doesn’t show concerns about what happens to the relationship. Whether things are going right or wrong, he does not give a damn.

-He doesn’t care if you don’t call him for a long time.

-He doesn’t care if you guys have a conflict. He won’t make efforts to resolve it.

-He doesn’t even care if you decide to leave it.

He doesn’t care about your feelings.

-He doesn’t make any contributions to the success of the relationship.

When you are the only one making efforts and sacrifices to ensure the relationship works, it’s a big sign his love for you is fake.

Finally thought

Love is beyond words. Love is sacrifice.

His love for you is fake even though he claims to love you if he:

-Only show he cares when he needs something from you.

-Doesn’t sacrifice for the relationship.

-Doesn’t give a damn about the relationship.

Thanks for reading, -Vishal ♡.